Carved bear among donations to Captain Joseph House

Betsy Reed Schultz expects that most visitors won’t notice it at first as they peruse the greenery outside Captain Joseph House. Then they’ll look east, and see a bear quietly, patiently standing tall amongst the trees.

The carved art — along with $2,500 from Black Bear Diner’s corporate office — are the most recent donations supporting Captain Joseph House, a Port Angeles home that’s the only respite center in the United States for families who have lost loved ones in combat since 9/11.

Representatives from Sequim’s Black Bear Diner and Sequim Holiday Inn & Suites joined Schultz at the home last week to present the funds and unveil the carved bear, and to get a glimpse inside of the 1910 Tudor-style craftsman house.

Betsy Reed Schultz (fourth from left), founder of Captain Joseph House, gives a tour last week of the Port Angeles facility that offers respite for Gold Star families.

Betsy Reed Schultz (fourth from left), founder of Captain Joseph House, gives a tour last week of the Port Angeles facility that offers respite for Gold Star families.

“It takes someone with tenacity and grace to do what you do,” Bret Wirta, owner of Wirta Hospitality Worldwide, told Schultz at the unveiling.

Many of those on hand, Schultz noted, were instrumental in getting the facility going.

Captain Joseph House, a one-of-a-kind 501(c)3 nonprofit corporation created to support Gold Star Families, opened for its first families in early October 2022, nine years after the ground was broken for the facility.

“It has taken a lot of folks to make this happen,” Schultz said.

Sequim Gazette photo by Michael Dashiell / Betsy Reed Schultz (far left), founder of Captain Joseph House, gets a look at a carved bear donated by Bret Wirta’s Black Bear Diner and Holiday Inn & Suites last week at the Port Angeles facility.

Sequim Gazette photo by Michael Dashiell / Betsy Reed Schultz (far left), founder of Captain Joseph House, gets a look at a carved bear donated by Bret Wirta’s Black Bear Diner and Holiday Inn & Suites last week at the Port Angeles facility.

And many folks to keep it going, too: the facility runs all on volunteers, Schultz noted, helping host up to three families and 16 visitors at one time. At least one volunteer is on duty from midnight to 8 a.m.

A group of families are coming in early December and a second group is slated for later that month around the holidays, she said.

The house, formerly Schultz’s bed-and-breakfast, features a massive table so that all family members are “equal and get to eat together,” she said.

A sunroom allows plenty of natural light and, Schultz said “it’s beautiful in this room, especially when it’s snowing.”

Sequim Gazette photo by Michael Dashiell / A look inside Captain Joseph House, a bed-and-breakfast turned respite home in Port Angeles for Gold Star families. This sunroom faces north and is particularly breathtaking when it snows, said Betsy Reed Schultz, founder of Captain Joseph House.

Sequim Gazette photo by Michael Dashiell / A look inside Captain Joseph House, a bed-and-breakfast turned respite home in Port Angeles for Gold Star families. This sunroom faces north and is particularly breathtaking when it snows, said Betsy Reed Schultz, founder of Captain Joseph House.

One bedroom has an elevator to the second floor. Some of the rooms feature double bunks and can sleep up to seven in one space.

“This is like fancy camping,” Schultz said.

The walls also feature artwork created by Port Angeles elementary school students. Claire Rausch, a former teacher, said she and her students were looking to do “something cheerful for the families” and created watercolor pieces that adorn the hallways.

Schultz’s son, Army Captain Joseph Schultz, was killed at the age of 36 in Afghanistan on May 29, 2011, when his Humvee was hit by an improvised explosive. Marty Apolinar and Aaron Blasjo were killed in the same blast as the one that took Joseph’s life.

Two of the rooms at the respite home are named for Apolinar and Blasjo; the third is named for Gene Braxton, the only member of Joseph’s crew who survived the explosion.

Sequim Gazette photo by Michael Dashiell / A look inside Captain Joseph House, a bed-and-breakfast turned respite home in Port Angeles for Gold Star families. This room features a child’s bed with a stuffed animal clothed in a quilt made by the Sunbonnet Sue Quilt Club of Sequim.

Sequim Gazette photo by Michael Dashiell / A look inside Captain Joseph House, a bed-and-breakfast turned respite home in Port Angeles for Gold Star families. This room features a child’s bed with a stuffed animal clothed in a quilt made by the Sunbonnet Sue Quilt Club of Sequim.

A family crafts room features the only television in the home, along with various toys and games, and a mini stage for puppet shows where children “tell their stories, sometimes,” Schultz said.

Visiting families also take day trips, starting out at either Madison or Marymere Falls, and then moving on to Forks and Rialto Beach, Schultz said — “rain or shine.”

When they do visit, Gold Star families will have a carved bear looking over them — a piece, Wirta noted last week, carved by Ray Schulz, who has carved more than 200 variations of black bears from cedar logs for the 60 plus Black Bear Diners.

Sequim Gazette photo by Michael Dashiell / Betsy Reed Schultz (left), founder of Captain Joseph House, gives a tour last week of the Port Angeles facility that offers respite for Gold Star families. The family craft room (pictured) features a quilt featuring student artwork.

Sequim Gazette photo by Michael Dashiell / Betsy Reed Schultz (left), founder of Captain Joseph House, gives a tour last week of the Port Angeles facility that offers respite for Gold Star families. The family craft room (pictured) features a quilt featuring student artwork.

They’ll also take home a quilt made by a Vashon Island outfit that also makes specially-designed quilts to wrap around injured soldiers, Schultz said. Youths will take home stuffed animals, many of whom don mini quilts created by the Sunbonnet Sue Quilt Club of Sequim.

“Even when they’re gone we want them to know we are still thinking of them,” Schultz said.

For more about Captain Joseph House, visit captainjosephhousefoundation.org.

Sequim Gazette photo by Michael Dashiell / A look inside Captain Joseph House, a bed-and-breakfast turned respite home in Port Angeles for Gold Star families. Betsy Reed Schultz, founder of Captain Joseph House, said she wanted to have a table that could accommodate everyone with the visiting families, including children.

Sequim Gazette photo by Michael Dashiell / A look inside Captain Joseph House, a bed-and-breakfast turned respite home in Port Angeles for Gold Star families. Betsy Reed Schultz, founder of Captain Joseph House, said she wanted to have a table that could accommodate everyone with the visiting families, including children.

Sequim Gazette photo by Michael Dashiell / A look inside Captain Joseph House, a bed-and-breakfast turned respite home in Port Angeles for Gold Star families. Quilts on the beds are made by a Whidbey Island group that also creates wraps for wounded soldiers.

Sequim Gazette photo by Michael Dashiell / A look inside Captain Joseph House, a bed-and-breakfast turned respite home in Port Angeles for Gold Star families. Quilts on the beds are made by a Whidbey Island group that also creates wraps for wounded soldiers.

Sequim Gazette photo by Michael Dashiell / Betsy Reed Schultz (with scissors), founder of Captain Joseph House, cuts a ceremonial ribbon for a recently-donated a carved bear from Bret Wirta’s Black Bear Diner and Holiday Inn & Suites.

Sequim Gazette photo by Michael Dashiell / Betsy Reed Schultz (with scissors), founder of Captain Joseph House, cuts a ceremonial ribbon for a recently-donated a carved bear from Bret Wirta’s Black Bear Diner and Holiday Inn & Suites.