Mad Hatters’ 20th anniversary

“The Roaring Twenties”

11 a.m.-2:30 p.m. Friday, Oct. 6

Sequim Community Church, 950 N. Fifth Ave.

$35 tickets. Contact Linda Turner at turner3192@gmail.com or call 360-681-5395.

Proceeds benefit Olympic Medical Center Foundation and Operation Uplift of Clallam County

More information, visit facebook.com/clallamcountymadhatters

After a cancer diagnosis, husband-and-wife Pepper and Vonnie Putnam of Sequim say you’ve got to strive to stay positive and keep your sense of humor.

Twenty years ago, Vonnie, 81, was diagnosed with breast cancer months after moving to Sunland, north of Sequim, from Bellevue.

“It scared us to death,” Pepper said.

“The hardest thing was accepting it and trying to find out a way to tell our children.”

“We sat ‘em down and there were a lot of tears shed,” Vonnie said,

But after a diagnosis in October 1997, Vonnie had surgery two months later in Sequim and her family kept the humor going.

“When she went in for the lumpectomy on her left breast our youngest daughter wrote with a Sharpie on her right breast “the other one,” Pepper said.

“When (Vonnie) went into the operating room, the doctor just smirked and told us later “I got your message.”’

The couple have a lot of stories about Vonnie’s treatment and recovery but she’s also found solace in attending and serving on the board for the annual Mad Hatters Tea Party too.

The event celebrates 20 years of supporting local women who have or are survivors of breast cancer like Vonnie.

This year’s tea party is set for 11 a.m. Friday, Oct. 6, at Sequim Community Church with proceeds helping Olympic Medical Center Foundation and Operation Uplift of Clallam County, which helps women without insurance pay for mammograms, wigs, and other treatments.

In recent years, the tea party has hosted upwards of 250 participants in the luncheon while wearing fun and exciting hats.

Keep going

The tea continues to honor the memory of Jan Chatfield, whom a group of friends tried to cheer up with a luncheon while she was battling cancer for the second time.

Unfortunately, Chatfield died nine months after the first event, but friends and organizers continued to honor her with the event while being inspired by the Mad Hatter in “Alice in Wonderland” to wear fun hats.

Vonnie, who has served on the tea’s board of directors for 10 years, said Chatfield was a mentor to her while she received cancer treatment and she recalls Chatfield encouraging her “to keep going.”

“(The tea) is very dear to me and the women we support locally,” Vonnie said.

But that message “to keep going” seems to continue on with Vonnie 20 years later.

“You’ve got to keep a positive attitude,” she said.

“Once in awhile you break down but we keep life going. We always look forward to the next day.”

Support

Pepper said his wife continues to keep a “great attitude.”

“She’s devoted herself to supporting other women with this issue,” he said.

“I can’t talk strongly enough about her and the community of ladies that give to other women who are fighting this horrible thing.”

After Vonnie started chemotherapy and losing her hair 20 years ago, a local hairdresser showed up unannounced to do Vonnie’s hair.

“It’s stuff like that from people we didn’t know,” Pepper said. “It was an amazing level of support.”

Vonnie said she learned of her cancer while doing a self-examination in the shower and later received confirmation from her doctor.

Despite the diagnosis, she felt good about her level of care.

“We knew women who had breast cancer who didn’t survive because the technology wasn’t there yet,” she said.

“But I knew the technology had improved and I had good support from family and friends.”

It also helped her to talk.

“Talking about it to me is a big help,” Vonnie said. “Some people like to keep it inside, but I think when you bring it out, it helps with the attitude.”

The couple recently celebrated Vonnie overcoming breast cancer by going on a cruise and they are still “relishing every day,” Pepper said.

For tickets to the Mad Hatters’ 20th anniversary, contact Linda Turner at turner3192@gmail.com or 360-681-5395.

Since 1997, Pepper and Vonnie Putnam say they’ve done their best to stay positive and keep laughing after Vonnie was diagnosed with breast cancer. She’s supported the Mad Hatters’ Tea Party in some capacity since its inception 20 years ago as well. The tea runs Oct. 6 as a benefit for local breast cancer patients. Sequim Gazette photo by Matthew Nash