By Cynthia Martin
Writing is one of those lifelong skills we use more than we realize — whether it’s a text, an email, a report, or a thank-you note. That’s why it’s never too early to encourage writing at home, and it doesn’t have to feel like homework either.
Start small, stay positive, and keep it fun. Here are some easy ways to help your child build writing confidence and creativity:
Let them write the grocery list. Ask your child to jot it down as you call out items—and let them add a treat or two of their own as a reward.
Teach them how to take messages. Show them how to write down who called and what they said. Keep a pen and notepad by the phone for easy access.
Set up a family message board. Whether it’s a dry-erase board or sticky notes on the fridge, leaving each other notes is a great way to practice casual writing.
Use the family calendar. Have your child write down their own appointments, sports practices, or school events. It’s a subtle way to boost organization and planning skills.
Make thank-you notes a habit. Encourage your child to write thoughtful notes — not just “thanks for the gift,” but a few sentences sharing what they liked and how they’ll use it.
Invite storytelling. Ask them to write a short story or journal entry about something that happened recently. It’s always easier to write about something familiar.
Talk about their writing. Read what they write and have real conversations about it. Tell them what stood out to you. Ask questions. Let them know their voice matters.
Celebrate great writing. If they write something they’re proud of, share it! Have them read it aloud at dinner or post it on the fridge like a piece of art.
Believe it or not, many adults avoid writing — not because they don’t have ideas, but because they think they’re “not good at it.” The truth? Writing isn’t about perfection. It’s about practice. Help your child build that confidence now, and they’ll carry it for life.
